Wearing the Pants?

I remember learning the phrase of "wearing the pants" in a relationship when I was in college. I was stunned by the clearly sexist sentiment, but also by the fact that people actually had a label for that in a relationships. Since then, I have never thought about my dating relationships the same way. I was annoyed to be the 'skirt' and being tugged around(waiting for the phone call...), but I also hated dating men where I was clearly the pants wearer (boring and annoying).

Thank God I met a man that is willing to share with me. That is probably what took me so long to find him.

I was thinking about this tonight as I watched a good friend interact with his gf from TX. What a nice girl! Wonderful sense of humor, cute, and smart. Way to go Liason(a.k. a. Slummy)! You are two peas in a pod and seem to share the 'pants' easily- at least from what I can tell.

It so fun to see a friend so happy in a vastly different relationship from the past.
Yippee!